What I think, when I see a crowd of people…

What I think, when I see a crowd of people…

 Whenever I see a group of people in a public place, like in a bus stand or railway station or somewhere, I see a lot of pattern. I see bored faces, living their patterned life. I usually wonder why it is  like this, why people chose to be sad and have a boring life. And I never understood it either at first because I was standing among them in that crowd, following a patterned life.

I started searching for the reason why a majority of people and youth like me end up like that. The reason I could understand was many. Some of it are.

1.       Play safe.

Now most of the people want to play thing safely. In fact, it starts with our childhood. Our parents choose the best school they can with their pocket. From there, the programmed life starts. We come out of school and still don’t know what to do with life. You come to one of important juncture in your life and you see a group going towards the engineering path. Some rare people chose otherwise. And after four years of that still no idea what to do with life. The only difference is that you have degree with the same thought you had when you entered the college. We all have different ideas in our life. But the idea of
PLAYING SAFE life drag us from trying something new. That is we all wanted a life that is too programmed and SAFE. So that we know where we are going, don’t want to try anything new, be on the safer side. We want to make our life secure that’s all.

2.       We think , but don’t  act  because we …….Afraid

Yes the reason we all want to play safe is, we all are afraid to do. We never want to risk anything. We never believe in us, our thoughts. We never give it a try. We are afraid we may not reach we would love to and won’t give it a try. Some says it is because of my situation. And we always think we wanted to do so many things, but we never do it. We want to go with our passion but something always holds us up. That thing is our fear. 

3.       It’s not going to work.. Only works for great people.

That’s another reason, our ATTITUDE. We always believe it won’t work for me and we won’t give it a try either. The reason for this may be also with society we live in  , we live in a less motivated society. But that’s wrong. The change should start from our head, from US. We should have a proper attitude towards things.

4.      We give up too easily

  We want to achieve something in life and with that in mind we chose something, something we dont love to do. so during the long run we forget to love ourselves and what we do and we give up. 

So what we really will think when all the time has passed on with our thoughts to do something, but we never did anything. And on our death bed we will think, we should have lived my life instead of someone else’s. That’s when we really going to regret. We can never rewind our life then. We only have NOW, yesterdays are gone and tomorrows are never coming.